What happened to us?

When did things become so awkwardly different? We’re not as close as we used to be anymore...I know that time and people change, but we were supposed to remain the same. Or maybe I was the one who changed. The trouble is, I don’t know when, how and why. Remember those days when we would take long strolls in the hot summer sun just because we both enjoyed walking and because the right company was all we needed? Remember those days when we would just sit and reminisce for hours and hours about things past - happy, sad and indifferent? Remember those days I would just leap on your bed with all my might and what you would ALWAYS say? Remember those times when we went days and days without end (it seems) content- on chicken soup. Lol. I remember...

Maybe things changed the day I realized you were old. The day I actually realized what getting old represented. That day he died and it clicked that you could be next... and then you started getting so very sick. It’s almost as if I started cutting the ties one by one so that it wouldn’t hurt so much in the end. I feel so guilty and selfish now but I can’t help it...I really can’t...I don’t know what to do. And now the lights are fading slowly and I don’t know when they will go out. Your daughter is 1yr older today and that reminds me that it means less time for you. I wanted you to be around forever, I actually thought it was possible back then...I was so young and naive, but now I see the truth...and it hurts like hell. But I will always remember, no matter what happens to either of us, I promise that I will never forget and you will remain in my heart forever.

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